…I think any healthy relationship has some element of codependency, though, doesn’t it? I depend on her, she depends on me; in different ways, we’re both fundamental to each other’s wellbeing. (And yes, I am aware that people use the term to mean something detrimental; I also think some people use it as an excuse, not to commit wholly to a partnership.)

I write. That’s what I do. Forty-two years a pro (and counting), and never a day job. Betweentimes I cook, and garden, and am very married.

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